Sunday, September 6, 2009

Heartbreak again

We went out to visit Caden today.

Once again his grave has been stripped bare.

I don't know how long I can continue like this, having him there, being violated over, and over again. I can't handle it. Why do people desecrate graves? Why do people steal from dead babies? What on earth would posess you to do that? The toys were weathered. They were verging on ratty due to all the bad weather. Nothing you would want to steal for yourself. Why do it? Why break my heart again?

8 comments:

N said...

I just don't understand how people can do that. I'm so sorry. ♥

Kristi said...

I'm so sorry. It just makes me sick for you.

K77 said...

I'm sorry.

Lavender Luz said...

There are no words. It makes no sense. It's just not right. I'm sorry.

Chickenpig said...

I'm so sorry. Could it be the cemetery maintenance people doing it? I know they strip everything off of my grandparents' grave if/when I leave anything :(

Michele said...

I am so sorry... That is terrible. Have you contacted the cemetery? I know where my brother-in-law is buried, the cemetery removes things from graves when they feel they no longer look new. It took us a while to realize they were the ones taking the toys, etc, that we were placing there. We werent able to get them to stop but now that we know, we are more careful of what we put on there and we bury things that we dont want removed, like cards.

bb and mtb said...

I really hope that it's something as simple as the maintenance people picking up the things you left. The alternative is just too sad. {{hugs]}

tireegal68 said...

That is so sad that you can't feel that your son's grave is a safe and special place. I am so sorry- my heart goes out to you. Sending hugs to you and your whole family:)

 

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